One day, I realized he might not exist. My soulmate, I mean.

I realized there might not be someone walking around this earth just waiting to meet me. Someone with a private world just as intricate as mine that, one day, I would get to share and be a part of and know.

And I realized I was keeping a vacant spot in my heart for this person who might not exist. That I wasn’t allowing myself to be whole because how could I be whole with my other half missing?

It was an excuse, of course. A simple view of life that would exempt me from having to put in the effort of filling myself up with the love I was waiting for someone else to supply.

The reality is this: Life is a churning, chaotic thing with no guarantees, and in the throws of the tumbling you might run into people to hold on to for a while. Sometimes for a night, sometimes for life.

And holding on to someone is a worthy thing. A wonderful thing. Something to look forward to and appreciate and embrace with your whole heart.

But the love you get from holding on to someone will never be as reliable as the love you can give yourself. Right here. Right now.

So here’s my advice. Be open to love, but don’t be empty for it.

Open, Not Empty - John Paul Brammer (via johnpaulbrammer)
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c u in my dreams




The last words said by Black youth murdered by policemen. 

This shit is chilling and made me tear up.


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please god make it stop





might be the rawest pic I ever seen. and he got a bag of chips in his hand


With his dreads and his american flag shirt, this is everything

Can this become the next revolutionary icon?

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Bad Girls M.I.A.

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the femme struggle is real.

(Source: gracieisabelladzienny)

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*blows kiss up to the sky (for the aliens)*

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can one of my friends maybe text me/talk with me

if you are somebody i have cut out of my life or specifically expressed dislike for (which i don’t do often) (because i don’t dislike people often at all) stop following me

at the last episode of season 4 and gustavo fring is totally batshit insane and evil but i’d still ride it


he’s coming


He’s coming




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you turned out to be a terrible person and one of the biggest disappointments i have ever met
i don’t miss you at all and you’re not sorry at all
good riddance.

like some scummy stuff has gone down definitely but dedicating your life to that is just as unhealthy as trying to be an e-celeb dude
there are bigger evils to try and conquer with that energy u guys are known for

i respect you if you’re trying to simply warn ppl that her businesses aren’t the smoothest/safest, and trying to steer clear of trying to attain her body

but if you hide under the guise of freelicing while honestly doing nothing but dedicating hateblog after hateblog to her then tbh how healthy and good an influence are you

people do shitty things, and it dont always mean they’re shitty people, i’m not claiming she’s shitty or good because i don’t know her. just a reminder that shit actions =/= shit shit person always.
warn people of the real danger and move on, or at least don’t call yourself a freelicer if tbh you just can’t stand the chick 

i just can’t stand hiding behind “TRUTH!!!! HONESTY!!! REVEALING!!!” when truth is u just think she nasty as hell